For as long as there have been people, there have been people having sex. And for as long as there have been people having sex, there have been hundreds of positions devised to do it in. A quick glance at the Kama Sutra — a veritable compendium of penetrative positions — shows us that there is more than one way to skin a cat. For all of these different positions we could name and describe off the top of our heads, it is still surprising how few people know when it comes to anal sex positions. This one could also be called the cowboy — obviously — and it is very enjoyable for the partner who is being penetrated, as it lets them control the speed and depth of thrusting.
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Let's get one thing out of the way: Men aren't the only ones who enjoy anal sex. I'm a sex educator, and I've come across plenty of women who love anal play. Of course, not every woman is going to be into it I can't think of any sex act that's a universal turn-on. But many women are here for it, and some can even have full-on anal orgasms. With the right position and a few helpful pointers, you could be one of them.
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We checked in with some experts and asked them to take the mystery out of anal sex, and they schooled us on some positions that can help ease you into your first time to actually make it an enjoyable experience. In the traditional cowgirl position, your partner lies down while you mount on top — yeehaw! As the partner on top, you can ease into anal penetration by moving up or down as needed. Remember to go at an easy pace and stay relaxed. It helps to have had an orgasm already and be highly aroused.